I Read About Two Sisters
One who I knew long ago
a
sweet young woman
from my college days
who lived down the hall from me
who could laugh away the night,
the other- six years younger who I never knew
who
now wears her dark hair
short cropped like a beat poet
sensitive to the pain of life.
In
our college magazine
I
rarely consider,
I
read how tightly bound
these
women are to each other
from childhood the best of friends
no secrets no treasures went unshared
who went to the same schools
who
lived all their lives
within
easy reach of each other
who shared equally in life
who had no reason believe
theirs would not be good
in all the ordinary ways
were
changed unexpectedly
by
the early most public loss
of
the younger sister’s
articulate
caring husband-
a
young man with plaintive eyes
who confronted
his harsh overwhelming
by lung cancer
[none could explain]
with
the fullness of her love.
I read
and thought about
the
younger sister’s anguish
of
a shared life that would never be
how
once her grief must have known
no
boundaries no relent
which at first even sharing
could not diminish,
became
two sisters’ mission-
to
make good by compassion
to
grant sanctuary to those without
how
these two women’s passion
to ease our inevitable leaving
inspired
others to walk along with them and serve
as
each sister had always done for the other
and
I could feel how their work
finally
healed one sister’s grief-
giving
and returning meaning
as
only such work can.
Peter
Leed, Tufts
Class of 1974
Written
3/10/04